Sep 7, 2006

Let's talk about sex baby...

This title/lyric is too obvious, but too fitting-it's a Salt N Peppa song from my own misspent youth. Take the link to another great NPR story about this subject.

1 in 5 kids age 12-14 has had sexual intercourse!

Some may wonder if I am ready to deal with these oversexed youth...
You know the kind of kids who go to this school...

The Return of
THE WEEKLY INAPPROPRIATE CHURCH SIGN


All I have to say is there is no man more interested in the subject of sex and no one less interested in talking to kids about it.

Luckily the church I am now serving has a whole sex curriculum they teach and an entire weeklong sex camp they send 8th graders to, so I'll get lots of practice.

My own sexual education was recieved on the school bus from a sweaty overweight Junior in high school (in retrospect with probably inappropriate intentions) when I was a 5th grader who used to tell me things that made me want to throw up until he was dropped off and I would go home and bury my new knowledge in matchbox cars, only later (at 13 or so) to be dealt with fully. I guess a sweaty overweight youth minister who means well is a bit better.

This should be an interesting dimension to my work here.

When authorities warn you of the sinfulness of sex, there is an important lesson to be learned. Do not have sex with the authorities.

- Matt Groening, From "Basic Sex Facts For Today's Youngfolk"

Sep 6, 2006

One shot to your heart without breaking your skin; no one has the power to hurt you like your friends.

This lyric (the title) is from India Arie's song Get It Together off the Shark Tale soundtrack, which is really unfortunate considering. Why are some lives/deaths greeted with such little regard while others...? Check out this video filmed by some soldiers in Iraq by clicking the title.

I'll admit I never liked The Crocodile Hunter Steve Irwin. I found him kind of annoying and his show another noneducational joyride that I couldn't stand. It turns out he was quite the zoologist and a big conservationist and that's cool. I feel sad for his family and think how he died was tragic-but not all that unforseeable if you've seen his show. What has appalled me lately is the amount of covergae The Crocodile Hunter's death is getting. It's been on some channel for two days now-analysis, recreations, celebrations, pontifications. What the hell?

It further reminds me how much our media outlets pander and how lacking they are at reporting the news. Subsequently, we are an ignorant society, unaware of what WE are doing in this world and too easily amused and engaged by non-stories while real life and death news is taking place.

I want each of you to read this article from AP and think hard about what deaths our news outlets should be covering and what news we should demanding to hear.

By Rawya Rageh, Associated Press Writer | August 31, 2006

BAGHDAD, Iraq --Preliminary Health Ministry figures released Thursday show violent deaths in Iraq dropped substantially in August from record levels the previous month, despite a surge of killings in Baghdad in the past week.

At least 973 violent deaths were recorded throughout Iraq in August as of Wednesday, Dr. Riad Abdul Amir of the Health Ministry's statistics bureau told The Associated Press. They included 715 civilians, 80 Iraqi soldiers, 74 police and 104 "terrorists," he said.

The term "terrorists" likely include both Sunni and Shiite militants.

That represents a significant drop from the Health Ministry's July figure of 3,500 deaths, reported by Deputy Health Minister Adel Muhsin. He said that was the highest monthly figure recorded since the war began in March 2003.

According to an AP count, at least 966 Iraqis were killed in war-related violence in August and 1,015 were killed in July. These numbers include civilians, government officials, and police and security forces, and are considered a minimum based on AP reporting. They do not include insurgents.

The AP tally is compiled from hospital, police and military officials cited in news stories, as well as accounts from reporters and photographers at the scenes.

The Health Ministry's August figures included reports received from morgues and the interior and defense ministries.

According to Muhsin, about 1,500 of the July deaths occurred in Baghdad. Violent deaths in the capital fell to 550 in August, officials said Thursday. That was the lowest monthly tally in Baghdad this year.

U.S. officials attribute the drop in violent deaths to a major security crackdown launched Aug. 7. About 8,000 U.S. troops and 3,000 Iraqi soldiers were sent to the capital to search homes systematically and patrol the streets.

On Monday, U.S. military spokesman Maj. Gen. William B. Caldwell said the murder rate in Baghdad had fallen by 46 percent from July to August and "we are actually seeing progress out there."

The decline in Iraqi deaths has not been matched by a drop in American casualties. At least 62 U.S. service members died in Iraq in August, compared with 43 in July.

Ministry officials stressed the August figures were preliminary and a final count for the month would not be ready until next week. Nevertheless, officials said they were convinced deaths were down sharply.

"In June and July we were getting scary numbers," said Hakim al-Zamly, a Health Ministry executive director.

He said it was too early to determine whether the drop was a breakthrough but "there's definitely a slight, relative improvement."

Both U.S. and Iraqi officials have been anxious to talk up signs of improvement in the capital after weeks of ever-mounting death tolls and fears of all-out sectarian civil war. On Aug. 21, the Defense Ministry said "terrorist operations" had declined in Baghdad by 70 percent.

Some U.S. officials, however, have cautioned it is too early to tell if the decline in deaths is part of a long-term trend.

A surge of violence has killed more than 250 people in the Baghdad area since Sunday, raising questions about whether U.S. and Iraqi forces have indeed turned the corner.

However, National Security Adviser Mouwafak al-Rubaie insisted Thursday that execution-style killings and sectarian violence have dropped by 45 percent in Baghdad in the last six weeks. He said that was mainly due to Prime Minister Nouri al-Maliki's national reconciliation plan and the Baghdad security operation.

"There's definitely a much better sense of security among the general public," al-Rubaie said.

Accurate figures on the number of people who have died in the Iraq conflict have long been the subject of debate. Police and hospitals often give widely conflicting figures of those killed in major bombings.

In addition, death figures are reported through multiple channels by government agencies that function with varying efficiency.

The Health Ministry count is based on reports from hospital morgues throughout the country and mostly includes civilians. The Interior Ministry receives its figures from police stations across the country and can include both police and civilians. The Defense Ministry reports the number of soldiers and insurgents killed.

Although officials at the national level attempt to reconcile the figures, there is a possibility of double-counting.

Furthermore, accurate data is difficult to obtain from insurgent-infested areas such as Anbar province, which includes about 20 percent of Iraq's land area and where government institutions barely function.

Militias and other armed groups are often reluctant to bring their dead and wounded to hospitals for fear of arrest, and those deaths may never show up in any government agency counts.

It is also unclear how many people may have been abducted by insurgents or sectarian death squads, then slain and their bodies never found.

According to an AP count, at least 11,916 Iraqis have been killed in war-related violence since the first elected Iraqi government after the fall of Saddam Hussein took office on April 28, 2005.

Iraq Body Count, a private group that bases its figures in part on reports by 40 media outlets, puts the number of civilian deaths since the conflict began at between 41,041 and 45,613.

The Brookings Institution Iraq Index, maintained by Michael O'Hanlon, put the count between 20,000 and 37,200 as of July 5, 2006.

President Bush, in answering questions following a speech in December, estimated "30,000, more or less, have died as a result of the initial incursion and the ongoing violence against Iraqis."





In a word...Crikey!

Sep 5, 2006

Can you see the wise men simply living, loving quietly, every breath He takes eternity till the sun turns black?

The title/lyric is from Ray Lamontagne's new album Till The Sun Turns Black, this is the title song. You can hear an interview with Ray and a few of his superb songs by clicking the title and listening to NPR's Weekend Edition segment with him.

I am much gentler these days, almost serene. I can't understand it except to say that certain situations call for certain gifts and I'm finding patience and calm to be new ones of mine. Where have I been since July 7-the last day I posted? For that matter, where have I been since May when Exposing My Thorns stoppped its regular sharing?

I was in New York and New Jersey for a few days
I was in Maine for a week on a Mission Trip
I was in Texas lining up a new job
I was at church camp for a week...twice
I was in Denver, Colorado on another Mission Trip
I spent some time visiting friends and family
I slept in my apartment in Fort Wayne 8 times this summer
I slept at church a lot more
I slept on airplanes and in vans a ton more than that
I drove with all my office stuff and some clothes to Kingwood, Texas
Where I've been serving as Youth Minister for 10 days!!!

There will be things to share about these travels, someday, but for now I wanted to get back in the swing of posting what was on my mind. Today it's the fact that where I once was forceful and intense, I am now an easy does it, smiling believer that it will work out in due time.

Is this age? Is this wisdom? Is this temporary?


I remember my first few days in Bluffton; there was such energy with which I had propelled myself out of Evansville and so much to be done I was quick in the thick of it. Ofcourse all the lasting work was done over time both places. Is it that knowledge that has mellowed my arrival. I am not timid, I am confident and energetic. I just believe in the fruition of my dreams here so much that I don't feel I need to sell them.

This lyric seems to put forth the notion that the wise men are in a hurry to get from place to place, away from Herod I'm sure, and to the promised Savior when all they should have done is watched him breathe in an out life.

I have reached some new mellow peace-not sad like other days of less intensity-and not without intensity, just not overpowering my other gifts like in the past. I feel I've reached some new awareness of my talents and set a tone that lays them out for all to see, but not in some showy or bossy or intimidating way. That sounds good right?

Why does it feel so unsettling?

Jul 7, 2006

Come let us talk of these things

This title/lyric is from one of my songs, we lazily called Communion Song because it's about communion! Kind of captures the spirit of what this link takes you to.

I'm not cheating on Exposing My Thorns, but you are all welcome to visit http:www.TRItoCOMMIT.blogspot.com. This is the brand new blogspot where my camp will be hanging out and hashing out what we discussed this year. I'm linking it ot the right or you can get there by clicking today's title. Just thought some of you would be interested in that as well.

I leave for camp today and return long enough to shower, preach, pack, and maybe sleep before I fly out to Colorado for the next big trip of the summer, a mission trip with the Kingwood kids. I'll try to post a lot in August!

Be here now, no other place to be.

The title is a lyric from a Mason jennings song I dig that I use here in a somewhat ironic way. Couldn't think of a link. I'm beat.

Wow, where the hell have I been? Actually I have been so busy that I've wanted to write and just haven't gotten to. Mission Trip, visit to Texas, next Camp, then Mission Trip with Texas crew ahead. I haven't been this tired in a long while, but here we go again.

So I thought as a way to have posted I'd share the Bible Study I put together for the Mission Trip. You can do them yopurself, glance at them, share them, or ignore them altogether. I understand.

Day One
June 12, 2006

Disconnection

Lighting the Candle

Check-in Questions

Best part of today?

Who is the love of your life?

Music for Meditation

Suite for Cello in G Major Prelude
By Yo Yo Ma

Be Here Now
By Mason Jennings

Be here now, no other place to be
Or just sit there dreaming of how life would be
If you were somewhere better
Somewhere far away from all your worries
Well here you are
Be here now, no other place to be
All the thoughts that haunt you, just set them free
And let good things happen
And let the future come into each moment
Like a rising sun
You are the love of my life
Yeah, you know you are
The sun comes up and we start again
It's all here for you
All you have to do
Is be here now
Be here now, no other place to be
All the thoughts that haunt you, just set them free
And let good things happen
And let the future come into each moment
Like a rising sun
You are the love of my life
Yeah, you know you are
The sun comes up and we start again
It's all here for you
All you have to do
Is be here now

Words for Meditation

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born. Anais Nin

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30

Prayer

Extinguishing the Candle




















Day Two
June 13, 2006

Evolution

Lighting the Candle

Check-in Questions

Best part of today?

How have you grown in the last year?

Music for Meditation

Suite for Cello in G Major Allemande
By Yo Yo Ma

El Otro Lado
By Josh Rouse

You called me up this evening
Cause you wanted to know what's going on
You give me ultimatum
Cause you don't want to feel you are wrong
And I tell you that some folks don't evolve
They're content with what they've got
They just sit back and they watch TV
You talked about September
Fought about your tastes, they were all mine
What did you know anyhow
When you said I'm lost but there's still time
And I tell you that some folks don't evolve
They're content with what they've got
They just sit back and they watch TV
Yeah I tell you that some folks don't evolve
They're content with what they've got
They just sit back and they watch TV
Yeah but that's not me
But one day you'll come around to see the other side of things
One day you'll come around to see the other side of things
Yes you will
You'll come around to see the other side of things
You'll come around to see the other side of things

Words for Meditation

All growth is a leap in the dark, a spontaneous, unpremeditated act without benefit of experience. -Henry Miller

But if you will look to God and plead with the Almighty,
if you are pure and upright, even now he will rouse himself on your behalf
and restore you to your rightful place. Your beginnings will seem humble, so prosperous will your future be. Ask the former generations and find out what their fathers learned, for we were born only yesterday and know nothing, and our days on earth are but a shadow. Will they not instruct you and tell you? Will they not bring forth words from their understanding? Can papyrus grow tall where there is no marsh? Can reeds thrive without water? While still growing and uncut, they wither more quickly than grass. Job 8:5-12

Prayer

Extinguishing the Candle





















Day Three
June 14, 2006

Destination

Lighting the Candle

Check-in Questions

Best part of today?

What did you want to be when you were a little kid?

Music for Meditation

Suite for Cello in G Major Courante
By Yo Yo Ma

Which Way Your Heart Will Go
By Mason Jennings

Little airplane in the sky
You point up at it
I watch your face as you watch it go by
Everything is perfect
Where would I be right now
If all my dreams had come true
Deep down I know somehow
I’d have never seen your face
The world would be a different place
Darling there’s no way to know
Which way your heart will go
Summer sun on a sandy sky
Silver swing set shining
How can life feel so alive
And still feel like dying?
Where would I be right now
If all my dreams had come true
Deep down I know somehow
I’d have never seen your face
The world would be a different place
Darling there’s no way to know
Which way your heart will go
Stack of books beside our bed
Living out of boxes
Why does the empty space fill with dread?
Why does change still shock us?
Where would we be right now
If all our dreams had come true
Deep down I know somehow
I’d have never seen your face
The world would be a different place
Darling there’s no way to know
Which way your heart will go
Which way your heart will go
Which way your heart will go

Words for Meditation

We would rather be ruined than changed;
We would rather die in our dread
Than climb the cross of the moment
And let our illusions die.
-W.H. Auden

Then Peter stood up with the Eleven, raised his voice and addressed the crowd: "Fellow Jews and all of you who live in Jerusalem, let me explain this to you; listen carefully to what I say. These men are not drunk, as you suppose. It's only nine in the morning! No, this is what was spoken by the prophet Joel: In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams. Even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit in those days, and they will prophesy. I will show wonders in the heaven above and signs on the earth below…” Acts 2:14-19

Prayer

Extinguishing the Candle





Day Four
June 15, 2006

Salvation

Lighting the Candle

Check-in Questions

Best part of today?

How do you save someone’s life?

Music for Meditation

Suite for Cello in G Major Sarabande
By Yo Yo Ma

How to Save a Life
By The Fray

Step one you say we need to talk
He walks you say sit down it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
And you begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
Cause after all you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And pray to God he hears you
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life

Words for Meditation

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
~Author Unknown

For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it. What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self? If anyone is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of him when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. I tell you the truth, some who are standing here will not taste death before they see the kingdom of God.” Luke 9: 24-27

Prayer

Extinguishing the Candle

































Day Five
June 16, 2006

Unification

Lighting the Candle

Check-in Questions

Best part of today?

Music for Meditation

Suite for Cello in G Major Menuett and Gigue
By Yo Yo Ma

We’re All In This Together
By Ben Lee

Woke up this morning
I suddenly realised
We’re all in this together
I started smiling
Cause you were smiling
And we’re all in this together
I’m made of atoms
You’re made of atoms
And we’re all in these together
And long division
Just doesn’t matter
Cause we’re all in this together
Yeah
I saw you walking
In the city
We’re all in this together
The cities changing
Cause we are changing
And we’re all in this together
Every 12 seconds
Someone remembers
That we’re all in this together
In the kitchen
Of your rent controlled apartment
We’re all in this together
Come on baby
I don’t mean to rush you
I only wanted
To reach out and touch you
I’ve got to start
To open my heart
I know you think about
Jumping ship before it sinks
But we are all in this together
Ask a scientist
It’s quantum physics
We are all in this together
And on the subway
We feel like strangers
But we’re all in this together
Yeah I love you
And you love her and she loves him
But we are all in this together
You know baby
There’s never been protection
In all the history
Of human connection
Come on darling
It’s alright to show me
You don’t ever need to be lonely
Once you start
To open your heart
I saw you crying
I started crying
Cause we’re all in this together
And then religion
It’s a big decision
But we’re all in this together
Yeah we are all in this together
We’re all in this together
We’re all in this together
We’re all in this together
We are all in this together
We’re all in this together
We’re all in this together
We are all in this together
In this together
We are all in this together
We’re all in this together
We are all in this together
We are all in this together

Words for Meditation

This is not the end. This is not even the beginning of the end. It is, instead, the end of the beginning. -Winston Churchill

I didn't ask for it to be over, but then again, I never asked for it to begin. For that's the way it is with life, as some of the most beautiful days come completely by chance. But even the most beautiful days eventually have their sunsets. -Anonymous

Then the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain where Jesus had told them to go. When they saw him, they worshiped him; but some doubted. Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." Matthew 28: 16-20

Prayer

Extinguishing the Candle